I once heard a very true statement that helps me make sense out of things that dont seem right. It was, " The sweet isnt as sweet without the sour" I think that statement can be applied in almost any terrible situation, from the far extreams of death... to something as simple as dissapointment. For instance: If a new mother was to lose the father of her baby... she would appreciate her life and even more so... her baby's life. For a few years now I have been attempting in vain to g...